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Huh.
Trying to do a sex partner tally.
(Was on OkCupid reviewing match questions with someone)
I think I've only had sex with 17 people, if I define sex as, "everyone was willing and at least one orgasm occurred."
That is 17 in 32 years.
I need to think about, do I have feelings about that. And if so, what feelings do I have?
Hmmmmm
Trying to do a sex partner tally.
(Was on OkCupid reviewing match questions with someone)
I think I've only had sex with 17 people, if I define sex as, "everyone was willing and at least one orgasm occurred."
That is 17 in 32 years.
I need to think about, do I have feelings about that. And if so, what feelings do I have?
Hmmmmm
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your last sentence there: being satisfied (or not) and what I want sex to look, feel, be like for myself... that's really the point.
and i need to figure out how to better communicate around sex. I missed my shot on at least two occasions in the last few years where I really wanted that connection with someone but was too ...dense, or too convinced /they couldn't possibly want me/?
ARGH.