Partner count. ( À question of sex)

[labelleizzy]

Huh.
Trying to do a sex partner tally.
(Was on OkCupid reviewing match questions with someone)

I think I've only had sex with 17 people, if I define sex as, "everyone was willing and at least one orgasm occurred."

That is 17 in 32 years.
I need to think about, do I have feelings about that. And if so, what feelings do I have?

Hmmmmm

Comments

[serendipity17]

I'm at just the one, so it always feels as though discussion of the subject is violating privacy, on account of that there's no plausible deniability about whom I am speaking. Collectively all y'alls don't need my partner's info or the bulk of our stories, and there's a tiny bit of squick re: the concept of other people's specific info.

[labelleizzy]

you are the one who gets to choose to share your stories or not.
it's on the consent spectrum.
and definitely you shouldn't have to hear tmi you don't want in your brain, but i understand how some folks overshare (including me at some inopportune moments over my lifetime, but I've definitely also had that inflicted on me at times I Did Not Want.)