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Had a first date tonight with B, K's husband. I like him and not just because he's cuddly and thinks I am too. He feels safe, and like it will be fun getting to know him...
Then because I felt safe with him, I was able to tell him that if sexy times was something that we wanted to move towards at some point, that I would need time and he remembered that I had said to him that I thought I was someone on the demisexual spectrum. He remembered. And he believed me. And I'm not sure why that was so shocking but it was.
I got cuddles and kisses! And this is maybe the best first date in a couple of years.
Maybe Jeff is right about dating our friends.
Then because I felt safe with him, I was able to tell him that if sexy times was something that we wanted to move towards at some point, that I would need time and he remembered that I had said to him that I thought I was someone on the demisexual spectrum. He remembered. And he believed me. And I'm not sure why that was so shocking but it was.
I got cuddles and kisses! And this is maybe the best first date in a couple of years.
Maybe Jeff is right about dating our friends.
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