Gender things again...

I don't feel like I've ever been good at "girly" things, and I sort of wished I wanted to be good at them? But didn't. Met some enby folks, reflected on my life, realized that I mostly only ever cared about my gender during sex... before I figured out I'm bisexual and biromantic... I mostly think genderfluid is one term for me, agender sometimes, but the term which made me feel real joy is genderpunk. 🤘I get to choose, in whatever chaotic combinations I feel like, how I feel, dress, present myself.

The short term I'm using lately is simply "queer". It's a great search term, for research etc.

(From a facebook comment in a nonbinary folks discussion group)