Thursday, July 10th, 2014 03:29 pm
I've been thinking for the last few years, that attention is the rent we pay for being in relationship, for being in community.

It was never such a privilege to pay attention as it was, many years ago, when I was teaching high school reading and drama classes, and became the advisor for the Improv Comedy Club. Thinking back, I marvel at the quick wit and facility with ideas, language and expression that these teenagers had. How fluent and adaptable they were to performance situations where anything could change (and did) with the drop of a word or addition of a new gesture!

Nick was a wiry, nervous Italian looking kid, earnest and new to the Improv team, often half-a-beat late with his responses, or just this side of awkward, in its own kind of funny. Mariel was a comic genius, with a rounded buxom figure, huge brown eyes and an impressive range of physical expression, and she could also get really LOUD in all the good ways. Tawd was clever, almost effortlessly funny both onstage and off, and a deceptively mellow, slow voice. He's the reason I acquired a nickname among the drama classes, and I remember him fondly for that. Aliza was slim, sly, sarcastic, with a drawling kind of vocal delivery that could quicksilver turn to something manic and panicked if the character called for it. Lucas was tall, with what his friends teased him was "emo kid hair", at that gangly teenage stage where his every gesture seemed floppy, but he sure knew how to use that puppety-ness to his advantage, like a Tim Burton character. Brandon was short and compact. He had a deep voice that belied his small frame, and an onstage poise and speed on the uptake that was nothing short of marvellous. Adam was blond, almost with ringlets, and our tech guy when he wasn't onstage. He was ridiculously silly and ridiculously smart, and I still remember one skit where he was spontaneously, slowly, somersaulting around the stage for no apparent reason.

They were all, every one of them, hilarious, but Parker felt like the ringleader. That kid... well. Damn, that kid was a force to be reckoned with. Sandy sort of dishwater brown hair (and I'm not just saying that because he had a positive TALENT for pissing me off), a nondescript sort of everyman face, and sleepy-looking hooded eyes, he was an absolute fucking chameleon onstage, with a rubber face and a skill at vocal characterization that reminded me of the young Jimmy Stewart. He's the one who I remember (with Mariel and Tawd) as starting the club and teaching the other kids all the improv games. He had a very strong personality, and he pushed hard to get the team members to practice all the different kinds of games and to get them in shape for competitive Improv Comedy events with other schools.

Parker was so funny and occasionally so bizarre... I remember how impressed I was with how much he knew about comedy and improvisation. I was brand new to the drama gig, and I don't mind at all saying that I learned virtually everything I know about improv and theater games from these kids. From Highway Patrol to New Choice, tongue-twisters and physical warmups, their speed and sarcasm and joy and silliness just delighted me. I would watch from the audience space and sometimes grade papers as they worked and played and tried new things, always new things, even with the old games they all knew well.

Building characters and scenes with zero stage props or maybe only hats or scarves or a couple of chairs from the audience is what made me think of them when I saw this week's prompt. These kids? I could imagine them EASILY getting a "confession from the chair." You'd be laughing at the one-sided conversation, imagining the chair's responses, and then cheering as the chair is dragged offstage. Of course, there'd be implications that a well-deserved beat-down will happen once the chair is in lockup.

It was a privilege to pay the rent there, to be on the sidelines watching the worldbuilding these kids could do in the blink of an eye. I got no call to be proud of them, I didn't teach them anything. They did it all themselves, but I'm proud of them nevertheless. It was a pleasure to know them.

I hope they are all still finding joy in words and connection and their own quick minds, making creative and subversive things in the world, and messing with people's heads.


This has been my entry for [livejournal.com profile] therealljidol . This week's prompt was, as I mentioned, "Confession from the Chair."

Here is a link to one place you can find short descriptions of improv comedy games, you can also google "theater games" or improv games if you would be interested in learning more. Also I recommend comedysportz san jose as an example of improv comedy as a hell of a lot of fun for an evening's entertainment. (hmmm, I need to get out and see that again sometime soon!)
Friday, July 11th, 2014 12:24 am (UTC)
That sounds brilliant
Friday, July 11th, 2014 01:47 am (UTC)
That was by no means an easy job, but by GOD it had its moments.
Friday, July 11th, 2014 01:26 am (UTC)
What a great memory! Loved it.
Friday, July 11th, 2014 01:46 am (UTC)
Hee. Thanks so much.
Friday, July 11th, 2014 06:07 am (UTC)
I was fascinated by improv when we were given the topic..:) And it's Fun reading about it again..A nice trip down the memory lane..loved how you used the phrase here..made me smile..:) Enjoyed reading this..Good job!
Friday, July 11th, 2014 06:21 am (UTC)
*grin* yay! Positive association all the way around!
Sunday, July 13th, 2014 02:26 am (UTC)
We have a ComedySportz in Minneapolis, also, as well as a fairly active improv community. This is an adorable story... these kids do seem like a joy and a delight... I'm a touch envious of your experience with them, honestly... how fun that must have been, and what great memories for you. I can see how the reward would be worth the effort. Thanks for sharing this!
Sunday, July 13th, 2014 04:21 am (UTC)
Awww, thanks. They do not lie when they say that teaching is the toughest job you'd ever love.
Sunday, July 13th, 2014 06:15 am (UTC)
You must have been such an inspiration to those kids!
Sunday, July 13th, 2014 06:35 pm (UTC)
Some of my students, yeah. These kids? Not so much, more like a necessary evil... Or not evil.


Thanks for saying so,though. My time spent teaching was engaging and frustrating and wonderful, with a mild leavening of occasionally despairing.

*hug*

But I remind myself that I've done something right, since around a dozen of them have reached out to be FB friends even five years later.
Monday, July 14th, 2014 01:59 am (UTC)
They sound like a really fun group. :)
Monday, July 14th, 2014 03:12 am (UTC)
I have fond memories. I left that job in 2008, but I think of the students I worked with ... A lot.
Monday, July 14th, 2014 07:32 pm (UTC)
Sounds like a fun bunch of kids to be around!
Monday, July 14th, 2014 09:13 pm (UTC)
Ah, they were, no doubt about it. I'm still in contact with Tawd, and Adam invited me to his Eagle Scout confirmation. So much love for these bright spirits!
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 04:11 am (UTC)
This was great! They sound like a fun bunch of kids, and it's awesome that you had that time with them! Also, great use of the topic!
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 07:30 pm (UTC)
aw, thanks! They were such great kids, great people really. Good memories.
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 04:20 am (UTC)
They sound like great kids! I bet you and [livejournal.com profile] joeymichaels would have fun talking shop!
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 07:34 pm (UTC)
okay, and now I'm over checking out [livejournal.com profile] joeymichaels's LJ... thanks!
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 09:35 pm (UTC)
Oh Hey! Another improv person!
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 11:20 pm (UTC)
I wish I could claim that distinction... I actually suck at improv. My brain doesn't work like that usually. But I hosted them when they were larval improv actors, and that's something.
Wednesday, July 16th, 2014 09:58 am (UTC)
That''s the best time to host them. :D
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 06:57 am (UTC)
What a great memory from the past! Though the spelling of "Tawd" makes me cringe, but you painted all these kids and their different personalities so clearly. :)
Tuesday, July 15th, 2014 06:59 am (UTC)
oh that spelling is NOT my fault, that's how he chose to spell it. It's SO him. *grin*
Thursday, July 17th, 2014 08:41 am (UTC)
Sounds like a terrific group - I love working with that age!
Thursday, July 17th, 2014 05:05 pm (UTC)
Yeah, me too!
Been thinking of doing more volunteer work, maybe with the Boys and Girls Clubs or with a local GLBT community organization. I miss the vivacious nature of teenagers...
Thursday, July 17th, 2014 08:01 pm (UTC)
I like people who really pay attention to people. Not enough do.
Thursday, July 17th, 2014 08:35 pm (UTC)
Hi there!
I really make an effort, as often as possible. It's a part of my life philosophy.