Be the change you want to see.

That’s been my big issue with this. I’ve never dated a guy who hasn’t at least tried to pressure me into something I didn’t want to do, and right up the scale. I guarantee that they would not recognise that (and in fact, the worst offender, when I confronted him a year later, responded with ‘how could you think i’d do anything to hurt you?’. So I’m a bit ‘what’s the point?’