sometimes that's what it needs: let it out (first of all) and hear other's response (other than your own). and honest? I've been bullied (verbally) at school, for a long time, on and off, by both other kids and also a teacher. so I think if I can reply the way I've done to you, maybe that helps you too to see that you *can* forgive yourself.
have I forgiven the ones who bullied me (and those weren't one offs, those were ongoing situations)? yeah, I don't care about them anymore and most situations I don't remember too (emotionally) deeply. The only one I'd still like to hit over the head is that ex teacher. Because he should have known better, and I wasn't the only victim. He always picked on someone, in every class.
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let it out (first of all) and hear other's response (other than your own).
and honest? I've been bullied (verbally) at school, for a long time, on and off, by both other kids and also a teacher. so I think if I can reply the way I've done to you, maybe that helps you too to see that you *can* forgive yourself.
have I forgiven the ones who bullied me (and those weren't one offs, those were ongoing situations)? yeah, I don't care about them anymore and most situations I don't remember too (emotionally) deeply. The only one I'd still like to hit over the head is that ex teacher. Because he should have known better, and I wasn't the only victim. He always picked on someone, in every class.